tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-78734821125138048932024-03-06T13:07:24.023+05:30Fun - PlayfulUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-31998816556741204482012-06-20T08:58:00.004+05:302012-07-28T20:27:16.809+05:305 qualities that men look for in women<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGCHZXvJbfGCZ47P8oQs3XLvdRcpt61-MX7HcyqEdsUDXeDkz0SPyh2-9KKJ0UcFO7t6lRmb_ihF7iopiolh3vmnmdTsRDcwVJMrAgEgvK7wZ66taD60QCW5A7Y-7qoHIkQylG0qgibGc/s1600/598916_191793524282369_86918953_n.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 577px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhGCHZXvJbfGCZ47P8oQs3XLvdRcpt61-MX7HcyqEdsUDXeDkz0SPyh2-9KKJ0UcFO7t6lRmb_ihF7iopiolh3vmnmdTsRDcwVJMrAgEgvK7wZ66taD60QCW5A7Y-7qoHIkQylG0qgibGc/s320/598916_191793524282369_86918953_n.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5755970135840255634" border="0" /></a><br /><h3><strong>Oh, how relationships have changed since the romance of Mr Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet. Here are the most popular qualities that modern men look for in women:<br /><br />Female quality 1: She has a life of her own</strong></h3> <p> Say ‘cheerio’ to the helpless heroine from classic literature, and ‘well, hello!’ to the contemporary independent woman. It’s important to show that you’re self-sufficient when you’re trying to impress a man, and it’s equally as important to maintain this when you’re in a relationship. The average modern man doesn’t want a lady to be clinging onto him all the time – it makes him feel suffocated. Rather than ditching your friends and family to spend time with a new love interest, make sure you keep separate plans in your diary at all times. Never feel as though you wouldn’t have a life if this person wasn’t in it; get out there and show that you have a vibrant lifestyle aside from him. A relationship should enhance your life, not rule it. </p> <h3><strong>Female quality 2: She is honest and loyal</strong></h3> <p> Be honest with your love interest. If you tell them that a) you’re married and going through a particularly difficult divorce; b) you have a strange obsession with feet; or c) anything else that could potentially make them run for the hills, then you’ve done the right thing. Okay, maybe hold back on option b for now, but you see what we’re getting at. Anything that they may find out further down the line and could put them off should be made clear from the outset, or you risk wasting the time of you both. Don’t sugar-coat anything – if this man likes you enough, he will want to help you through difficult situations rather than leaving you to it. If either you or your love interest can’t accept the truth about one another’s past or present lives, you shouldn’t think about getting together because you won’t be able to look to the future. </p> <h3><strong>Female quality 3: She looks after herself</strong></h3> <p> This is one thing that hasn’t changed since the days of our most distant ancestors; men like a woman who takes a pride in her appearance and vice versa. We’re not talking about being a tall, slim supermodel – it’s not all about looks – but a little primping and preening here and there goes a long way. There’s no need to dress up in a ball gown and tiara for a date, but do wear something that accentuates your fantastic figure. Wear makeup to highlight your natural features; style your hair to compliment your face; and spritz on your favourite scent to boost your confidence – hello gorgeous! Styling yourself to make you feel your best leads to a more confident you and that’s another trait that men look for in women. </p> <h3><strong>Female quality 4: She is self-confident</strong></h3> <p> Gone are the days when the timid damsel in distress attracted the handsome, strong man; nowadays, being needy attracts little more than a few raised eyebrows. Despite coming across as confident, rarely do the celebrities you see in the media feel as bold and confident as they look. It’s all about faking it. Instead of zoning in on your weaknesses, develop and maximise your strengths to put you in the right frame of mind. Make sure you use your body language to your advantage, as this can help you to fake confidence when really you might prefer it if the ground were to swallow you up. Stand tall, make eye contact, and smile, for an instantly more confident you. </p> <div class="image-upload-holder"><span class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="width:310px;"><img src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/TLMB8P_gvu.U_hRz9WjIhw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_GB/News/RealBuzz/RB98489623300.jpg" alt="couple on beach" style="display:block;margin-left:auto;margin-right:auto;" title="couple on beach" height="206" width="310" /><span class="legend">couple on beach</span></span></div> <h3><strong>Female quality 5: She is mature and well-spoken</strong></h3> <p> Baby talk can be cute but don’t use it too often, sugar bunny. Your average modern man likes his woman to be able to hold down an intellectual conversation as well as having a good sense of humour, and cutie-overload could put him off. Talk about interesting topics and be sure to listen to him as well as inputting your own thoughts and ideas into the conversation. Hold back on slang words for your first few dates and avoid swear words too, as they come across as uncouth. </p> It is a truth universally acknowledged that a modern man looks for different qualities in a woman than he may have done in the 1800s and – whilst no man is ever the same and may look for different qualities in a woman – it’s a good idea to take these tips on board to boost your dating potential.<br /><br /><table><td width="200"><a href="http://www.signalpenpals.net/index.htm" target="_blank"> <h3><img src="http://www.signalpenpals.net/images/signal2007front.jpg" border="0"> <font color="green" face="Arial, Helvetica, Geneva">* 50.000 penpals FREE!<br>* Your own AD FREE !<br>* TAKE A LOOK NOW ! </font> </h3></a></td></table>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-33126657137657192412011-11-24T14:23:00.004+05:302015-01-18T14:09:50.180+05:30How to turn him on<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px; font-weight: bold;">Ladies, we all know that the way to a man’s heart is not through his stomach, but through his pants. So it can be a nice surprise for him if you turn him on first, rather than vice versa. If you want to drive him wild and become the best he’s ever had then put these top tips into practice:</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 21px;">The five senses</span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Sight, smell, touch, taste and hearing; we all know what the five senses are, but do you work them during sex? Before you jump into bed light a scented candle and put on some music. Wear a flavoured lip gloss, some perfume and something silk. You could even introduce some tasty food; strawberries or cream are failsafe classics. To finish off, whisper naughty things into his ear and purr softly. You can also heighten the experience with a blindfold.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 11.0pt;">Dress up<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;"> Bondage, latex, frills and panties; there’s a lot of kinky kit on offer. However, you don’t always have to look like some kind of gadget girl to send thrills through his body. Keep it simple with some stilettos. If you can’t walk very well in heels, don’t worry. Just wearing them in bed is enough to please him. You can turn up the heat by adding some sexy stockings or socks. Other simple yet effective props include wearing nothing but a simple leather belt or even a wig.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Tease<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Teasing a man makes every touch sensational. Begin by telling him that he can’t touch you, but that you can touch him. Start to kiss him, working from his head down. Linger around his groin, but don’t actually touch him there. Then rub, kiss, tickle and squeeze his whole groin area, but again don’t touch his penis. He’ll soon be begging for more. You can take this one step further by wearing some clothing that is revealing, but that covers up some of your best bits.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Surprise<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Sometimes your man may feel like he wants sex more than you, so why not make him feel wanted by surprising him? When he’s in the house, you could dress up in a sexy outfit and wait on your bed until he finds you. Or you could walk past him naked. As you walk out of the room make sure you look back over your shoulder and shoot him a cheeky smile or blow him a kiss – he’ll instantly know what you want.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Rub his perineum<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Your man has a perineum, which is the area of skin between his testicles and anus. This small area often gets overlooked during sex, but he would love it if you gave it some attention. Firstly, stand behind your man. Start to stoke his penis and kiss his neck. Place two fingers on his perineum and rub. Try to do this for a few seconds at a time, repeating until he’s fully aroused. You could also work this area during oral.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Use your hair<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Your hair is your greatest weapon in the battle to try to drive your man wild. Firstly, prepare your hair. Use a leave-in conditioner. Then before you pounce on your guy, take a perfume you know he likes and spray it onto your brush. Then comb your hair with the brush. Once you’re in bed blindfold him, take your locks and start to stroke and tickle his hot body. The combination of touch and smell will seduce him in seconds and leave him wanting more.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Message him<o:p></o:p></span></h3>
<span style="font-size: 10.0pt;">Letting your man know that you’re thinking of him, and thinking about him in a sexual way, is a big turn on. Send him a message, it can be something simple like “I really want you tonight”, or something a little more risqué; do what you feel comfortable with. It sounds so simple, but it gets results. Your man will now be having kinky thoughts about you all day and as soon as you walk through the door he won’t be able to resist you</span>.<br />
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Are you having problems in the bedroom because of your size? You should not worry about it since there are a handful of penile exercise to increase size, help with erectile dysfunction and of course increase hardness.</div>
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Though there are a lot of healthy foods for stronger erections to consume an hour before you hit the sack, there are exercises which will help you a great deal. Boldsky has put together six best penile exercise to increase size.</div>
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If these simple exercises are performed by you on an every day basis, you will get good results in no time. Simultaneously , you will also get to see a lot of miracles in the bedroom which will surely put a smile on your face. So, if you want to improve your abilities as a man, here are some of the best penile exercises to increase size.</div>
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Do It With Gestures Use the ‘okay sign’ hand gesture as the first penile exercise to increase size. All you need to do is hold the penis in the okay sign, slowly grip your shaft and pull it at the same time. You need to stretch it to different directions for at least 7 minutes. Doing this once in two weeks will make you see the difference.</div>
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The Thumb One of the best penile exercise to increase hardness is the by using the thumb. Hold your manhood at the tip and pull it gently and firmly downwards. Place the thumb right at the lower part of your penis while the rest of your fingers support its shaft. Repeat this exercise to increase hardness every 10 seconds before you head to the bedroom.</div>
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The Stroking Method Slowly grip your penis and stroke it in a downward motion. However, do not grip it too tight as you move it up and down, as you might impede blood circulation. The main purpose of this penile exercise to increase size is to allow better blood circulation in your penile head.</div>
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Warm Towels By using a warm towel, squeeze all the hot water from it completely and place it around your manhood. The warmth from the hot towel enhances the blood flow to the penis which thus helps in erectile dysfunction and also helps to increase size.</div>
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In Erection This penile exercise to increase size might be a little difficult for you to do since it needs to be done during an erection. Start by stretching it sideways, in different directions for 10 seconds. This needs to be done at least twice in the week if you want to see results. Note – try to avoid early ejaculation. This is one of the best penile exercises for erectile dysfunction.</div>
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The Perfect Stretch Start by holding your penis from the base and gently pull it downwards. When stretching it gently, make sure to hold the stretch for about ten to fifteen minutes. This is one of the best penile exercises to increase size and also to increase hardness.</div>
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But Schwarzenegger's plight surely evoked sympathy, secretly at least, among many a married couples in India, who have been dragging their sexless marriages for years.<br /><br />Experts caution that the number of couples in such marriages is on the rise and it’s no more uncommon to find couples who haven’t even consummated their marriage and reach out to a counsellor for help. Garima and Ritesh Jain (names changed) are one such example.<br /><br />On the outside, they seem to have everything going for them. Both husband and wife in their thirties hold plum posts in multinational companies, but the fat pay cheques they get at the end of each month haven’t been able to fill the void in their eight-year-old marriage.<br /><br />"My husband was unable to perform in the bed. Soon after the marriage we tried several times, but somehow we weren't able to consummate the marriage. And then somehow we got busy with our lives," says Garima. At one point of time, the couple wanted to separate. "I went back to live with my family, but they insisted I go back and carry on with the marriage. That's when we decided to see a counsellor," says Garima.<br /><br />Their counsellor, Dr Aruna Broota, told us living in sexless marriages is an emerging trend – something that she had to deal with all the time. "Indian society is very rigid, and this couple did not want to separate because of social shame and economic insecurity. We are governed by very conservative social norms and people live in loveless sexless marriages without letting it be known," says Dr Broota.<br /><br />Prenups are becoming a fashion statement in India too?<br />DRAGGING ON<br /><br />THE STORY of Garima and Ritesh finds echoes in a website called the experienceproject.com. The website allows people to post their experiences in certain situations and have a section for people in sexless marriages.<br /><br />Here’s what a woman called Mrs India wrote: "I had an arranged marriage 15 years ago. I was too scared to leave because I didn't know where to go if I did leave. I knew that I wouldn't be happy back at my parents so I stayed. My marriage was sexless from the start. I initiated it every time, and noticed he never made a move. I blamed it on his family because we lived with his parents. When we moved to our house away from his parents it was still the same, but I was still in denial. I thought it would be better if we had kids. I literally forced him to have sex with me so that I could get pregnant. I sobbed my heart out afterwards because I felt so ugly and unwanted." Mrs India did get pregnant, but her husband didn't care much about her pregnancy.<br /><br />She further writes: “My marriage is not just sexless, it’s emotionless too. The only time I saw any emotion was when I told him I was leaving him. I feel ugly and dead inside and it’s frustrating when others that don’t know my situation tell me how pretty I am and how lucky my husband is."<br /><br />Why you should 'wait' to get married<br />SEXLESS AND LOVING IT<br /><br />THERE are several people who go on living a farce in the name of a marriage due to societal pressure and the stigma attached to the D-word (divorce).<br /><br />But there’s another breed of couples which is quite happy with an asexual arrangement. “For them marriage is more about companionship than sexual pleasure,” says Jitendra Nagpal, senior consultant psychiatrist, VIMHANS.<br /><br />“These couples are emotionally interested in each other. But they are somehow jolted from slumber, when they are pressured by their families to produce off-springs,” he says.<br /><br />MARRIAGE BREAKERS<br /><br />THIS impatient generation has also given birth to another breed that believes in calling the marriage off at the drop of a hat. “They are very bold and vocal about it.<br /><br />There are women who openly say that my husband has a very low libido and is unable to perform. People belonging to this category head straight to the court,” says Nagpal adding that being so vocal about once sex life may not be that great a virtue.<br /><br />“It is difficult for a man to admit that he has a low libido. Female counsellors have a tough time in counselling such men. And that’s why it is important for a male counsellor to be present during the counselling session,” he adds.<br /><br />WHAT STATS SAY<br /><br />ON AN average Nagpal has to deal with at least two to three such cases every week. “Over the past 10 years the number of couples seeking counselling for sexless marriages has increased fivefolds,” says Nagpal.<br /><br />About 80 per cent cases are because couples are unable to take out time for sex.<br /><br />And about 10-15 per cent of the couples actually have problems because of certain lifestyle disorders such as smoking, alcoholism, drug addiction, and obesity.<br /><br />But the most important factor that leads to sexless marriages is the concept of sexuality.<br /><br />“Sex is not all about that threeminute act. There’s more to it. Sex is taken for granted just like, exercise, diet, hygiene and sleep. Because of their ‘busy’ lives, people compromise on these factors. It is ironical that animals are still enjoying their lives by taking these things seriously,” says Nagpal.<br /><br />It has become monotonous, boring and predictable for most urban couples.<br /><br />Real Men Reveal: "How I Knew I Wanted to Marry Her"<br />Romance is an important part of sexual health, but sadly it has gone missing in most modern marriages. Dr Kamal Khurana, relationsh counsellor, Purple Alley, blames it on the taboo attached to sex in India.<br /><br />“Women here are not much informed about sex and men derive most of their knowledge from porn,” he says. “Of course there is a mismatch. I know of a woman married to a sex fiend who abused her for 10 years. She hated having sex with him. Such a marriage is equal to a sexless marriage because there is no emotional bond,” says Khurana.<br /><br />The woman finally found that missing emotional quotient outside her marriage and sought for a divorce.<br /><br />A sexless marriage can lead to different psychological disorders. Dr Broota cautions that it leads to depression, sudden anger outbursts, and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD).<br /><br />“It also leads to several other phobias. A person in such a marriage might be scared of going into an elevator, for instance,” explains Broota.<br /><br />How Not To Marry The Wrong Guy<br />PRESCRIPTIONS<br /><br />The brain is said to be the biggest sex organ. And so experts prescribe a long-term therapy session for couples in sexless marriages.<br /><br />Dr Khurana believes in forging a bond of friendship between the husband and the wife. “They should first become friends and learn to trust each other and then we ask them to start hugging and kissing each other. It is a very long-term process.”<br /><br />Nagpal says that couples should compliment each other at least once a day, instead of ticking each-other off.<br /><br />“It also helps in recalling the pleasurable moments you might have enjoyed in the past. It can act as a booster for sex." Remaining asexual in a marriage is a personal choice. But dragging a sexless marriage is not very wise.<br /><br />Seek the help of a counsellor or a sexologist in case you are sexless in the city and not particularly happy about it.<br /><br />Reproduced From Mail Today. Copyright 2011. MTNPL. All rights reserved. </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-41162385066447698282011-01-18T22:11:00.015+05:302012-05-27T12:21:51.931+05:30A good sex life 'helps you live longer'<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCWVwP2zSycxWlDmnVC4w3mwP8ZsNUNHtVQMTPBzLvqMGGpP7ZYkxrPiWi5QtOUPnJcEFBKz43BPGD5uqahdjD9ifjfGbUPrSQaReGl_9lIZ8L1uEDriT3eT58x14iWYCvTXrK4nX1xAs/s1600/Nadbraham+Meditation.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 276px; height: 284px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCWVwP2zSycxWlDmnVC4w3mwP8ZsNUNHtVQMTPBzLvqMGGpP7ZYkxrPiWi5QtOUPnJcEFBKz43BPGD5uqahdjD9ifjfGbUPrSQaReGl_9lIZ8L1uEDriT3eT58x14iWYCvTXrK4nX1xAs/s320/Nadbraham+Meditation.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5747101719423550738" border="0" /></a><br /><div><h6 class="uiStreamMessage" ft="{"type":1,"tn":"K"}"><span class="messageBody" ft="{"type":3}">Nadbraham Meditation For Couples A beautiful variation of this technique for couples. Partners sit facing each other, covered by a bedsheet and holding each other’s crossed hands. It is best to wear no other clothing. Light the room only by four small candles and burn a particular incense, kept only for this meditation. Close your eyes and hum together for thirty minutes. After a short while the energies will be felt to meet, merge and unite.</span></h6><br /><br /><br />27-5-2012<br />====================================================================<br /></div><div><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLXkrrpMhcrVBGWfcqIza_1bYjyla5sICjrFPvWAe5P1GydpHtP50MHm5ptaD9C8H_OUMjSkT4O9r3Cv43Q8MiaXMZ_qsLI3G6v-hPqUobayU7esbDMvmoi6yPktbIVZvNYHex-F9gVgQ/s1600/Sex+%252C+A+Medicine.bmp" style="font-weight: normal; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; "><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 282px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLXkrrpMhcrVBGWfcqIza_1bYjyla5sICjrFPvWAe5P1GydpHtP50MHm5ptaD9C8H_OUMjSkT4O9r3Cv43Q8MiaXMZ_qsLI3G6v-hPqUobayU7esbDMvmoi6yPktbIVZvNYHex-F9gVgQ/s320/Sex+%252C+A+Medicine.bmp" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5744586247787217970" border="0" /></a><h1 style="margin: 0in 0in 7.65pt; "><span style="font-weight: normal;">20-5-2012</span></h1><div style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif"; background: none repeat scroll 0% 0% white;font-family:";font-size:16pt;color:black;" ><span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" >=========================================================</span></span></div><h1 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 7.65pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Arial, sans-serif;font-size:16pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-weight: bold; font-size:100%;" >Sexercise!</span><o:p></o:p></span></h1> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;color:white;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-size:85%;">As anyone who's ever failed to make it past the first month's attendance on an annual gym membership knows, actually fitting a regular workout into your daily routine is easier said than done. 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That's right, ladies, sex isn't only about pleasure; with a little energy and imagination it can provide a great workout too.</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <h3 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 3.85pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:12pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-size:100%;">The naked truth</span><o:p></o:p></span></h3> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" >A good session in the sack burns approximately 150 <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AlaVgmU3Icr9GR2fnraQbTo_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqaWd2Ymg3BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzIEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=17r97vr8c/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/health/weight-loss/%3Flink=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=110-foods-that-are-100-calories-or-less-103807%3Fclick=main_sr%26link=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">calories</span></a> for every 30 minutes you indulge – better than a <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AmiYw2sE8EINo08vES9l5xo_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqaTNjbzlmBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzMEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=1531ump26/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/health/fitness/yoga-for-relaxation-49901%3Fclick=main_sr%26link=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">yoga class</span></a> (at approximately 115 calories) and the equivalent to a brisk half-hour walk. And it's not just the nitty-gritty of sex itself – snogging alone burns between 60-90 calories in the same timeframe (depending on just how 'French' your kissing gets), while a vigorous half hour of <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AqAsi7xF3WCwca75JwGA8nQ_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqc2Fobm1zBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzQEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=16v1jtnhm/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/relationship/sex/%3Flink=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1tips/oral-sex-tips-63270%23fbIndex1%3Flink=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">oral sex</span></a> can add another 120 calories to your sexercise total. 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The rush of endorphins released by sexual pleasure has been found to help relieve stress, alleviate minor pain and boost the immune system. It's even claimed that sex can help lower your cholesterol levels. You might never need to visit the doctor again!</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <h3 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 3.85pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:12pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-size:100%;">Positioning</span><o:p></o:p></span></h3> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" >To get the most of out of a session, however, you need to do a little bit more than lie back and think of the homeland – heavy breathing alone does not an effective workout make.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-size:85%;">A full 22 per cent of couples admit to only ever having sex in the missionary position, but for maximum workout potential, creativity's the name of the game. First and foremost, get active – regularly changing <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AmJYY2jrIPEsW0X5lj9kTDo_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqY2dxYjVxBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzYEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=1715l3bdd/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/relationship/sex/positions/daily-sex-position-low-moan%3Flink=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1%3Flink=emb%26dom=yahuk_lif%26src=syn%26con=art%26mag=hnd%26ha=1" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">sex positions</span></a> keeps you moving, which equals more calories burned. As a rule of thumb, any position that puts you in equal or greater control of the session – and therefore in control of the energy you're expending – is good.</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <h3 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 3.85pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:12pt;color:white;" ><span style="font-size:100%;">Toning up</span><o:p></o:p></span></h3> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" >To target specific areas of the body, think about what a position involves. Being on top is pretty obviously going to get those thighs working. But to really go for the burn, take your weight into your feet rather than just your knees and use the</span><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;color:white;" > muscles in your thighs and bum to </span><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" >control your thrusts, leaning back onto your hands to work the upper arms as well. The idea is to use as much of your body as possible: arch your back and work those hips – anything to get those calories burning while toning up specific body parts.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" >It's a win-win situation: as you become fitter and more agile you can get even more creative. Before you know it you'll be balancing on one toe, legs akimbo, arms swinging recklessly on a chandelier. OK, so maybe that's a little too Samantha Jones for most of us, but the point is to get involved and, most of all, to enjoy it. Your body (and your ever-grateful partner) will thank you for it.</span><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;color:white;" ><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 16.85pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong style="font-style: inherit;"><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" ><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AntL0O.vcseaPRy3qGU2sH8_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqZG1vZW1rBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzcEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=11sq10u04/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/relationship/sex/"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">handbag's best sex tips</span></a></span></strong><b><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" ><br /><strong><span style="Georgia","serif";font-family:";" ><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Ar.N.bTY8X0nE3dNMvhl90Y_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqZTJrMXNoBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzgEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=1311sbqsn/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/relationship/sex/positions/daily-sex-position-low-moan"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">Kama sutra sex positions</span></a></span></strong><br /><strong><span style="Georgia","serif";font-family:";" ><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Artg2M.HsooSrr8J10sKsi0_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqcjE2NDhqBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzkEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJwZ3J1Y21oBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDYjAzNTI4NmQtNjA3My0zZjFiLWJiYzAtMzU0YWM5NjlhOWJjBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdl;_ylv=0/SIG=11ue3j6r7/EXP=1319011971/**http%3A/www.handbag.com/health/weight-loss/"><span style="text-decoration: none; ">Great weight loss tips</span></a></span></strong></span></b><span style=" background-image: none; background-attachment: scroll; background- background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat repeat; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:10pt;color:white;" ><o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; margin-bottom: 12pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />5 – 10- 2011</span><br />====================================================================<span style="Georgia","serif";font-family:";" ><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >London, Jan 18 (ANI): A new study has revealed that a great sex life will not only help you feel and look younger - it will also help you live longer.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Dr Eric Braverman, an anti-ageing expert from the US, has written a new book 'Younger (Sexier) You,' in which he says that sex not only raises your hormone -levels (so keeping you young), but can also boost your metabolism, brain function, heart health and immunity.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Braverman says that coffee can help boost a flagging libido, while snacking on peanuts can enhance arousal, reports the Daily Mail.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Eating brown rice can help combat sexual coldness, while avocadoes might increase your capacity for pleasure.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Braverman also points to a study by Queen's University in Belfast that suggested having sex three or more times a week reduced the risk of heart attack or stroke in men by half.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Orgasms are thought to fight infection - increasing the number of infection-fighting cells by up to 20 per cent.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >A recent study also found that greater sexual activity in older men might protect them against prostate cancer.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >According to the doctor, the best aphrodisiacs are asparagus, bananas, cabbage, celery, figs, oysters and sea veggies.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >But it's not just about the mechanics of sex. Healthy sexual function is also about how your brain reacts to the messages it's receiving from your body, he adds.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >When your brain is working at its peak, brain chemicals are produced and dispersed at the correct levels. A reduced sexual desire can apparently be the first sign there's a problem with one of the four key brain chemicals - dopamine, acetylcholine, GABA and serotonin.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >The following spices can also boost dopamine levels: basil, black pepper, cayenne, chilli peppers, cumin, fennel, flax seeds, garlic, ginger, mustard seed, rosemary, sesame seeds, tarragon and turmeric.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Spices good for boosting acetylcholine include allspice, basil, cumin, peppermint, sage, thyme and turmeric.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Alcohol increases GABA -levels, but make sure you stop at one or two glasses a day - a man might not be able to maintain an erection and a woman could nod off.<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p style="font-weight: normal; margin: 8.45pt 0in 0.0001pt; line-height: 17.6pt; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Georgia","serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" >Good antidepressant spices for serotonin include anise, dill, marjoram, nutmeg, peppermint, saffron, spearmint and turmeric. (ANI)<o:p></o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><o:p> </o:p></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><span style="font-size:85%;">5 – 10 - 2011</span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><span style="font-size:85%;">================================================================================================================</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; font-family:'Times New Roman';font-size:medium;" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 16px; font-family:arial, helvetica, clean, sans-serif;font-size:13px;" ></span></span></span></span></p><h1 class="headline" style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px; line-height: 1.21em; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:26px;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><span style="font-size:85%;">Health Benefits of Sex</span></span></h1><div style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><span style="font-size:85%;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; line-height: normal; -webkit-border-horizontal-spacing: 0px; -webkit-border-vertical-spacing: 0px; font-family:'Times New Roman';font-size:medium;" ><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 22px; font-family:Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:14px;" ><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">The uninitiated keep wondering how it feels, the more seasoned ones vow by its pleasures and no one can ever say NO to it—yes, I am talking about Sex.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Though it occupies the human mind unlike anything else, it seems that most people don’t realize that sex isn't just about fulfilling your carnal desires. There is sufficient, unquestionable scientific proof that underlines the <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=An5tqIADACA9ltAj4YD0NMw_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqMDgxZXM0BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzEEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12vqvrnb3/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-health/636-exercising-your-orgasm-muscles.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">health benefits of sex</a>. In fact, sex surfaces as one of the most comprehensive and effective activities you can indulge in from a health perspective. Some of the most documented and proven <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1326657067_0">health benefits</span> of sex have been listed below:<br /><br /><strong style="font-weight: bold; ">Read more on Yahoo! Lifestyle:</strong></p><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: none; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial; "><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AgOZ.s.cAk2aGzanpUffMiM_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqaWd2Ymg3BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzIEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=1378iqrev/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/official-having-sex-best-way-feel-good-065451578.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Having sex is the best way to feel good</a></li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=ApTvGN5y3LfBxFFz9w1U6EU_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqaTNjbzlmBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzMEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12dn71uht/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/10-sex-myths-094810273.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Top 10 sex myths</a></li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AvFvq2J7jy2GbB1SEl.J4o0_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqc2Fobm1zBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzQEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12o6kepti/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/10-surprising-sex-stats-090000860.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">10 surprising sex stats</a></li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Akpkm87Bx97.O_57k_Lk270_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqaGFmbHBnBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzUEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12p3avpe6/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/how-to-make-your-man-more-romantic.html" target="_blank" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Teach your man how to love</a></li></ul><strong style="font-weight: bold; ">Sex Boosts Your Immunity</strong><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><strong style="font-weight: bold; "></strong>The principle of your mind and body’s health being interrelated is best exemplified by sex. For starters, the act raises the synthesis of immunoglobulins. These are antibodies or our immunity compounds that help us fight infections. People with a more-than-basic level of <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Atmgn5sbZHEkaYIaCkbNEXU_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqY2dxYjVxBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzYEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=13fnr9e2d/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/better-bedroom-performance/624-bring-spice-back-in-your-sex-life.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">sexual activities</a>, per week, tend to retain a higher immunoglobulin concentration, making them more immune to common infections.</p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex Alleviates Common Infertility Problems</h4><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">With stressful lifestyles, many men are prone to suffering from lowered sperm count or poor semen quality. These are serious barriers for couples trying to conceive. It has been researched that regular and enjoyable sex helps men to overcome these issues. Their semen improves in quality and quantity and the stress-relieving properties of sex ensure that their sperm is healthier, more motile and penetrable. The <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AqZQ_iO_XMx0dkO_gc1IK1o_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqZG1vZW1rBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzcEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=13kijldai/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-positions/628-exciting-sex-positions-from-the-perfumed-garden-.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">act of sex</a> ensures that blood is properly circulated across the body, including the penile tissues, and absorption of nutrients is more uniform.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><div class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="margin-top: 6px; margin-right: 5px; margin-bottom: 11px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; clear: both; float: none; width: 310px; text-align: center; "><img src="http://l.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/jkzmcO3BAGsXQUPtZIVSig--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/sexlife_2451_3.jpg" alt="Health Benefits of Sex" style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; display: block; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; " height="206" width="310" /></div><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex Relieves Stress</h4><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Overall reduction of stress is perhaps the biggest, most widely-accepted benefit of sex. It is believed that higher <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AtjdDwxEiWhKa0MTTWc.uyc_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqZTJrMXNoBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzgEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12ssdl7s6/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-health/818-sex-and-menstruation-cycle-.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">anxiety and stress</a> levels are responsible for initiating most health problems prevalent today. With regular sex, psychological health is improved, particularly problems related to mood swings, depression and sleep. The act of intercourse helps to stimulate production of hormones that are required for overcoming stress and ensuring healthier behavior.</p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex Keeps You Physically Fitter</h4><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><div class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="margin-top: 6px; margin-right: 5px; margin-bottom: 11px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; clear: both; float: none; width: 310px; text-align: center; "><img src="http://l.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/LMiVkxx1jdffXGEpQiWjiQ--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/sexlife_2451_4.jpg" alt="Health Benefits of Sex" style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; display: block; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; " height="206" width="310" /></div><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex has an amazing calorie-burning and cardiovascular conditioning effect. It exercises nearly every muscle of the body, including areas like the abdomen, hips and thighs that are the common weight-gain areas for most people. Sex might not help you become muscular but it works-out the body in a beautiful manner. The increased supply of blood means that the body has a greater chance of eliminating waste products and providing nourishment in a more balanced manner to various organs. Increased levels of <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AjUAcnR7arbCZv0E.6bRoho_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFqcjE2NDhqBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzkEc2VjA01lZGlhQXJ0aWNsZUJvZHlBc3NlbWJseQ--;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12qd2oou9/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-health/639-staying-fit-for-great-sex.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">sexual hormones</a> help to fortify the muscles and bones with critical nourishment. These hormones help to prevent onset of heart diseases. Working the pelvic muscles, intercourse helps to prevent conditions like incontinence and hernias.</p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex Gives Your Skin Unique Radiance</h4><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">It is usually thought that only women have the <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Ask1HiSaLM5IUa4tdfIMNdw_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrb2pndWQ3BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzEwBHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=12pn3u8q8/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-positions/663-her-orgasm-guaranteed.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">after-glow</a> that is essentially a result of their hormones being produced aplenty during sex. However, this is applicable to men too. Yes, sex behaves like a psychological and physical boost for the human body. The circulation of blood rises, more oxygen is pumped into the body and sexual hormones are released copiously. The result is a sort of radiance that the best of moisturizers and make-up kits cannot compete with. It seems to take off years from your face, making you appear refreshed and cheerful.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><div class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="margin-top: 6px; margin-right: 5px; margin-bottom: 11px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; clear: both; float: none; width: 310px; text-align: center; "><img src="http://l.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/nzuRGVPQeVxccpV2o0IFcw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/sexlife_2451_2.jpg" alt="Health Benefits of Sex" style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; display: block; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; " height="238" width="310" /></div><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "></p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Sex is an Instant Pain-killer</h4><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">The feeling of happiness that accompanies and follows <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Av5RzvJyaSR8kh.1jpx2CTU_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrM2g5cm4zBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzExBHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=11vbe1mmu/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/sexual-positions.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">intercourse</a> is due to the rise in the secretion of endorphins. These hormones are required for establishing a relaxed state of mind. Sex also induces release of oxytocin, which along with endorphin, is one of nature’s most potent painkillers—everything from unexplained bodyache to serious conditions like arthritic or PMS pains can be relieved. (<a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AmPVMqVoh1th6kXxZHwWNYw_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrbzVrN3R2BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzEyBHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=11l0d3pph/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/health.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Health</a>, <a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AtVPkwYL63CsccoJ1L0hFTY_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrZ2VpNWs1BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzEzBHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=11aue95jg/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">MensXP.com</a>)</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><strong style="font-weight: bold; ">Also read:</strong></p><ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: none; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial; "><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=Alo_UG.4cBk3DROyiZqCyiU_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrNTc4NHFjBG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzE0BHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=138gn95lh/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/health/live-healthy/6028-alcohol-effects-on-your-sex-life.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Alcohol Effects on Your Sex Life</a></li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; list-style-position: inside; list-style-image: initial; "><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/_ylt=AqQGf2Qtv14fLwdin9_Lbh4_wuR_;_ylu=X3oDMTFrb2d1MDA1BG1pdANBcnRpY2xlIEJvZHkEcG9zAzE1BHNlYwNNZWRpYUFydGljbGVCb2R5QXNzZW1ibHk-;_ylg=X3oDMTJ2OG5icWExBGludGwDaW4EbGFuZwNlbi1pbgRwc3RhaWQDMjdhNjVjY2QtMWVmNy0zMmQyLWE4YzctZjNhYzZiZWVlNjdiBHBzdGNhdANoZWFsdGgEcHQDc3RvcnlwYWdlBHRlc3QD;_ylv=0/SIG=13oj9m824/EXP=1328020618/**http%3A//www.mensxp.com/health/live-healthy/5999-top-5-foods-you-should-avoid-for-a-good-sex-life.html" rel="nofollow" style="color: rgb(153, 0, 51); text-decoration: none; ">Top 5 Foods You Should ‘Avoid’ for a Good Sex Life</a></li></ul><div><br /></div><div>17-1-2012</div></span></span></span></span></div><p style="font-weight: normal; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; "></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="font-weight: normal; font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:100%;"><span style=" Arial","sans-serif";font-family:";font-size:10pt;" lang="FR" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-11325176949747518642010-12-11T17:03:00.010+05:302012-01-14T18:43:37.341+05:30Sex-related myths<h1 class="headline">7 ways to make sex more exciting</h1><p>Your guide to better sex<br /><br /></p><p>Enticing, thrilling and hot; would you use these words to describe your sex life? If not, then it’s time to take a look at our guide. You’ll soon be enjoying some sumptuous, pillow-biting sex:</p><p><strong>Also read:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=131ups4eu/EXP=1327756041/**http%3A//in.horoscopes.lifestyle.yahoo.net/astrology-article/astro-kissing.aspx">Astro predicts: What type of kisser are you?</a></li><li><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=12puic2c5/EXP=1327756041/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/6-foods-to-help-you-have-great-sex.html">6 foods for great sex</a></li><li><a href="http://us.lrd.yahoo.com/SIG=137cnd996/EXP=1327756041/**http%3A//in.lifestyle.yahoo.com/forget-gym-now-burn-calories-sexercise-084749961.html">Sexercise to lose weight </a></li></ul>Go back to school<br /><br /><p>Awkward teenagers, bells and bad food doesn’t sound romantic but reverting back to a pupil may put the kick back into your sex life. Whether you’ve been with your partner a few weeks, or a few years, there are always new things to learn about what the other wants from sex. Take it in turns to play the role of teacher and pupil. The teacher needs to take control, show the pupil what they want and how to do it. The pupil needs to listen, comply and also remember these frisky moves for later. Make sure you both get a go in each role and on different days.</p><p><span class="yui-editorial-embed"></span></p><div class="yom-figure yom-fig-left" style="width:px;"><img alt="" class="editorial " src="http://l.yimg.com/os/401/2011/12/23/sex_032204.jpg" width="" /></div>Have a curry<br /><br />If you want hot sex then take your date for a curry. A UK study has shown that you don’t even have to eat a curry to raise your heart rate, just thinking of your favourite spicy dish is enough to increase both your heart and your blood pressure to a level similar to one reached during sexual arousal. Spicy food was also found to release endorphins, which provided extra pleasure. After your curry, why not have a chili eating competition. A chemical found in spicy peppers, capsaicin, stimulates nerve endings, which means your sex will feel amazingly good.<br /><br />Love Yourself<br /><br />Sex is a hugely intimate act and requires a lot of trust. Considering this, it’s not surprising that many people feel uncomfortable about sex. If you don’t feel confident, don’t worry, there are a few things you can try. You could play a new sport. Sport players have healthier relationships with their body because they value its function, not its aesthetic value. You could also invest in some sexy lingerie that covers areas you feel uncomfortable with. And remember, psychologists have found that people who are considered beautiful are just as likely to be unhappy as anyone else.<br /><br />Never been touched?<br /><br />Sex can become a routine; another thing to tick off your list. You do the same moves, the same tired tricks and it all gets a little bit dull. If this sounds familiar, stop. There are lots of new things and new places you can touch. The thighs and knees may not be the most obvious place to begin, but they often get overlooked and yet they are very sensitive spots. Another neglected part of their body is the fingertips. Take their hand and rub their palms, then pull on their fingers. Touching each other in new ways is simple, exciting and fun.<br /><br />Play a game<br /><br />If foreplay has become a timed race to see who can turn off the lights, pull off their clothes and reach the safety of the covers first then it is definitely time you learnt how to slow down. Take a pack of cards and play a game you both know well. The loser must remove one item of clothing. Once you have both stripped off, continue the game, but this time the winner can choose an act they’d like the loser to perform on them. Keep a timer close by, so the game progresses. Playing this game will not only allow you to enjoy each other it will also build sexual tension.<br /><br />Go alfresco<br /><br />Doing bad things we shouldn’t do is a turn on. Everyone enjoys it, but only the daredevils seem to give it a go. A fun and safe way that would allow you to take your loving outdoors is to find a compromise. You could have sex in the secrecy of your garden, or your balcony if it is secluded. Make sure both of you are comfortable and take necessary accessories, such as a blanket or pillow. Having sex outdoors will give you huge adrenalin surges, which not only make you feel great, you’ll also perform better than normal. Be safe though; if you get caught expect trouble.<br /><br /><p>Reinvent yourself</p><p>You’re a brother, you’re a sister, you’re a wife, husband, dad or mum. When you get under the covers though, it’s important to forget who you are during the day. Adopting another persona in bed helps you de-stress and become sexy. There are lots of tools or accessories you can use to help you make the transition. You could wear a costume, a wig or even some exotic make-up. Play with different looks until you feel comfortable. Dressing up will give you a confidence boost, make your sex fresher and enable you to try new things with ease.</p><h1 class="headline"><span style="font-size:100%;">===========================================================</span></h1><h1 class="headline">Top 10 sex myths</h1><p>Sex; it’s one of the most thought about subjects, but how much do we really know? Our knowledge of sex is often confused by rumours, misconceptions and outright lies. So, dust off your magnifying glass, pull out your probes and apply your long, investigative, latex gloves – it’s myth busting time:<br /></p><h3>A woman can’t get pregnant when it’s her first time</h3> <p>The notion that a woman cannot get pregnant the first time she has sex is still a commonly held belief. In Turkey 25 per cent of young people thought this was true. However, the truth of the matter is that without reliable contraception, pregnancy is possible, whether it is the woman’s first time or her fiftieth time.</p><p><strong>I can’t darling, I’ve got a headache</strong></p> <p>Have you ever used the old headache excuse, or been denied some loving action because of one? Well, we have a cure for her sore head because sex has medicinal properties. When women have sex, endormorphins are released into her body, which in turn relieves pain. Therefore getting under the covers should help ease a woman’s headache. </p> <h3>Men always want it</h3> <p>Although many men in their late teens and early twenties want a lot of it, men do not always want to have sex. Lots of things affect people’s sex drives; stress being one of the biggest culprits. If you don’t feel like it, there’s nothing wrong with you. On average Briton’s have sex six to seven times per month, whilst American’s on average have sex twice a week. </p> <h3>If you masturbate you run out of semen</h3> <p>This is not true. The amount of semen a man ejaculates varies, being between half a teaspoon and a whole teaspoon of fluid. This equates to 40-500 million sperm. Men who ejaculate a lot in one day may notice that the volume of semen decreases, but there is no risk of you running out of semen, you will simply produce more.</p> <h3>Older people don’t do it</h3> <p>Talking about old people getting frisky can embarrass some people; but let’s face it everyone likes sex, even the granddads and grandmas. Many people think that after the menopause women lose interest in sex, but this is not always true. Many older people enjoy an active sex life beyond the menopause and it has lots of health benefits too.</p><h3>It’s good to lose your virginity when you are young</h3> <p>Although people are having sex younger, many regret it. The average age to lose your virginity is 16 in the UK. It was 21 in the 1950s. Sixty-three percent of sexually active adolescents wished they had waited longer and eighty-nine percent of those surveyed would advise their own brother, sister or friend not to have sex until at least after finishing secondary school.</p> <h3>Thin condoms break</h3> <p>If a condom is your preferred method of contraception, which type do you choose? There are a lot of condoms on the market: ribbed ones, sleek fitting ones, the thin, the thick and the pina colada flavored. Whichever you use, you don’t have to worry about the thickness because Durex reassures us that the thickness of the condom doesn’t necessarily correspond to safety.</p> <h3>We’re all porn stars</h3> <p>Watching two of Hollywood’s finest stars perform a hot love scene is great for getting you in the mood, but it should not be used as a sex guide. Real people do not come every time and last for three hours. Studies show that 75 per cent of men orgasm two to three minutes after penetration and an estimated 30 per cent of women can only achieve orgasm through masturbation. </p> <h3>Men cheat more than women</h3> <p>When you hear that a couple have split up because of an affair it is easy to assume it was the man’s fault, but recent studies suggest that women are much better at keeping their affairs secret. According to Dr David Holmes between eight and 15 per cent of children haven't been fathered by the man who thinks he's the biological parent.</p> <h3>Women don’t ejaculate</h3><p>Not all women ejaculate, but some do. If you have seen women ejaculate during pornography this is not an accurate depiction. In reality, women ejaculate a small amount of fluid, which is a mixture of urine and a liquid from the G-spot (the female equivalent to a prostate). However, most women do not experience ejaculation, so if you don’t, there’s no need to worry.</p><p>14-1-2012<br /></p><h1 class="headline"><span style="font-size:100%;">==================================================</span></h1><h1 class="headline">Best time to have sex</h1><p>Making love at 7:30 am is apparently one of the best ways, which can make your day healthy, a new study has revealed.</p> <p>At 7:30 am, the body produces a surge in <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1326438425_1">sex hormones</span> and a rush of adrenalin to get a person going in the morning.</p> <p>"You'll both be rested, with heightened senses. As you're still waking up, you tend to be more responsive," the Sun quoted sex therapist <span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1326438425_0">Suzie Hayman</span> as saying.</p> <p>Research in Italy revealed that it is also the time most couples are likely to orgasm and conceive. (ANI)</p><p>14-1-2012</p><p>====================================================================</p><p><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Top 9 sex-related myths busted</span></span><br /></p><p><br /></p><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 23px; font-family:Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;font-size:14px;" ><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; "><span class="yshortcuts" id="lw_1292006018_0">Washington</span>, Dec 10 (ANI): Do you know everything about sex? Think again for the more someone claims to know, the less they generally do know.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Alicia Stanton, a board-certified OB/GYN and the author of 'Hormone Harmony,' who specializes in treating men and women suffering hormone imbalances, has listed top nine sex-related myths and what the real scoop is about sex, desire, and making it all work, reports the Fox News.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: Interest in sex decreases with menopause.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Many women maintain hormonal balance and interest in sex through menopause. And, pregnancy and menstruation are no longer a concern, spontaneity can reign. Also, they are typically more confident and knowledgeable about what they want, so sex has the potential to be better than ever.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: The only hormone important for libido is testosterone.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Although testosterone is very important for libido and sexual function in men and women, other hormones play a part as well. Estrogen is actually very important for desire in both men and women. Also, a high level of cortisol, our "fight or flight hormone," works against libido. If your body thinks that you're running for your life, literally or figuratively, it is not going to be very interested in sex.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: If you're truly in love, desire for sex and high libido should come easily.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Relationships and making a real connection with someone takes time and energy. Relationships require as much attention as anything about which you are passionate. Focus on keeping your partner and his or her interests high on your priority list and you will find yourself discovering new ways to connect and keep the passion alive.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: If you're healthy, you should want sex all of the time.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: A wide variety in sexual appetite or level of libido exists. The way you know if you're having the "right" amount of sex is if you and your partner are both happy with your level of activity. There's no need to compare yourself to others.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: If you're connected with your partner, you shouldn't have to ask for what you need.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Even if you and your partner haven't previously spoken much about your sexual relationship, it might be good to start talking. This is especially true if you're entering a new phase of life, including childbirth, menopause, or andropause, often called male menopause. If you begin to notice changes in your body or sexual desire, be sure to let your partner know what's going on. And, remember, communicating about what feels good enhances the experience for both of you.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: Your most important sex organs are "south of the border."</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Although those places are lots of fun, remember that your brain is the biggest sex organ in your body. You always have the ability to choose how you feel and think about sex and your sexuality. The desirability a man or woman feels about himself or herself is a very potent aphrodisiac. If you feel irresistible, your partner will find you irresistible. Passion is contagious!</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: If you don't have a partner, there is no sense in having a libido.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Having a loving relationship with yourself is essential. Even if you don't currently have a partner, feeling sensual and desirable will add passion to many aspects of your life. It takes practice to learn what arouses you and what a potential partner finds arousing. Learning to pleasure yourself is an important skill that you can continue to enjoy on your own, or that you can teach to a partner one day.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: Women are the only ones who have problems with low libido.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: Although the sexual desire disorder known as low libido is more common in women, it occurs in men as well. Some physical causes include alcohol, various medications, stress, hormone imbalances (such as low testosterone), cocaine use, brain tumors that produce the hormone prolactin, diabetes, and other major diseases such as cancer.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Myth: Hormonal issues are the only cause of low libido in women.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Reality: There are hormone imbalances such as low estrogen, low testosterone, hypothyroidism, and high cortisol from stress, but there are many other potential causes as well. Physical problems such as vulvar or vaginal pain or dryness may cause an increase in frustration and reduced libido. Surgery or other major health conditions like cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure or arthritis can also reduce libido.</p><p style="margin-top: 11px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; ">Also, relationship issues, psychological issues (including depression), alcohol, tobacco use, and weight issues may also contribute to low libido. (ANI)</p></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-70144675634243222672010-11-16T22:22:00.002+05:302011-01-18T20:55:52.987+05:30Sex it up at the gym<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'; font-size: large; "><span class="Apple-style-span">If you are among the ones who pay an annual membership fee at the local gym, but visit it only a handful of times, this should motivate you. Being fit and healthy benefits all areas of your life – including sex.<br /><br />Those cardio and weight-training sessions can add that much-needed (or aspired) zing between the sheets.<br /><br />Improves testosterone levels<br />Research has shown that regular exercise, especially squats and lunges, boost the testosterone level in the body. Since the hormone plays a key role in one's libido and performance, a boost there equals great sex.<br /><br />Makes you look attractive<br />A toned physique is undoubtedly the most potent turn-on for your partner. It makes you more desirable to your partner and starts the fire burning. It's been observed that those who maintain a toned physique have a better perception of themselves which leads to higher confidence levels and helps in a better sex life.<br /><br />Improves stamina<br />A man who indulges in enough cardio-vascular exercises stands better chances of satisfying his partner. Regular cardio builds the body's overall stamina, which means you last longer in bed. Cardio requires withstanding the pressure for a longer duration with a sustained and justified distribution over the workout's time span. This conditioning of the body helps men last longer and preferably let the women achieve or*asm before them. This helps because while men reach climax only once during the lovemaking, a women can do so multiple times.<br /><br />On the other hand, the women who indulge in weight-training achieve an or*asm much faster, as the aggression it induces makes patience take the back seat – which is why it is advisable for them.<br /><br />Beats libido killers<br />Stress is one of the biggest reasons for a dissatisfactory bedroom experience as it leads to many problems, right from reduced stamina to simply not being in mood. Regular exercise is one of the biggest stress busters for most people and lower stress levels means a healthier and a far more exciting sex life.<br /><br />Aphrodisiacs in your diet<br />A healthy and well-balanced diet is one of the most important aspects of achieving fitness. After you work-out, your body craves nutrition. For building muscle and repairing the damage, you need a diet high on zinc and proteins. Eat your way to a great sex life with a diet rich in asparagus, onions, garlic and bananas.<br /><br />Matter of position<br />To experiment, keep that flab in check for the extra inches may restrict your urge to experiment in bed</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-20988329371745612152010-11-16T22:17:00.002+05:302012-06-25T20:38:22.893+05:30Most Intimate Secrets of a Woman_Wht She expects from her partner ? +18<h1 style="font-weight: bold;" class="headline"><span style="font-size:180%;">10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife</span></h1><h1 style="font-weight: bold;" class="headline"><span style="font-size:85%;">It’s a pity no one states the things not to say to your wife ever. </span> </h1><p> But if we had to had to bribe the pundit to read out the top 10 commandments of what a husband must never mention to his wife instead of wedding vows, this is what it would look like.</p> <strong>1. “Maybe you should go on a diet.”</strong> <p> Yes, looking after your house and keeping it habitable has affected how she looks but if you can’t <a href="http://www.mensxp.com/dating/dating-tips/6159-7-compliments-you-must-give-her.html" rel="nofollow">compliment her</a>, don’t ever let her hear this one. Especially when you’re sitting with your perfect tyre in place.</p> <h4> 2. “Why don’t you work as long as me?”</h4> <p> Yes, we get it. You’re irritated and need to spark off an argument but talking about what a great sacrifice you make by working is not going to help anyone. Especially if she’s quit her own job to look after the house and kids.</p> <strong>3. “Anand from Accounts is ….”</strong> <p> No, your wife doesn’t want to know about office gossip. When you’re home, she wants you to listen to her not your work problems. At least not every day!</p> <h4> 4. “That one looks hot!”</h4> <p> If you have ever said this to your wife while checking out another woman and lived to survive the tale, you know what a landmine this sentence is loaded with.</p> <p> <span class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="width:310px;"><img src="http://l2.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/i.KluVb..JBvPI91IOq7uw--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/dating67993.jpg" alt="10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife" height="268" width="310" /></span></p> <h4> 5. “I don’t feel like talking.”</h4> <p> This can be excused if used sparingly. However, if you want to prevent communication <a href="http://www.mensxp.com/dating/deal-breakers/6485-how-to-deal-with-relationship-problems.html" rel="nofollow">problems in your relationship</a> then you better learn to have an open channel all the time.</p> <h4> 6. “All you do is nag.”</h4> <p> Desist from ever saying this. Your wife’s already short fuse will be completely blown if you such this incendiary sentence.</p> <p> <span class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="width:310px;"><img src="http://l.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/0fFioHWUPLjQTlT_uXfhog--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/dating67994.jpg" alt="10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife" height="268" width="310" /></span></p> <h4> 7. “Why do you want to go shopping again?”</h4> <p> Yes, she knows you hate it. But you need to entertain her too and if she likes to go shopping, then tough luck. Deal with it, <a href="http://www.mensxp.com/dating/deal-breakers/601-male-quirks-that-women-hate.html" rel="nofollow">don’t complain</a> about it.</p> <h4> 8. “You’re not really wearing that, are you?”</h4> <p> Unless you’re Narendra Kumar Ahmed or Sabyasachi Mukherjee, questioning her sartorial choices so bluntly is going to cause a major fight. Try and suggest your picks in a more delicate manner.</p> <p> <span class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="width:310px;"><img src="http://l1.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/b8FPYwD9QXHI59LBGJs_dg--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/dating67995.jpg" alt="10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife" height="268" width="310" /></span></p> <h4> 9. “Must be that time of the month.”</h4> <p> If you think you can use this line as a weapon for a clever retort, you’ve got another thing coming. This can be one of the most insulting, not to mention sexist, things you can ever say to your wife.</p> <h4> 10. “You’re acting like your mother.”</h4> <p> The biggest no-no. No woman likes to be compared to another woman, especially her mother. Bear in mind you’re also passing a judgement on her mother with this one. Unless you want to spend an entire year apologising, refrain from ever using this line during your entire marriage.</p> <p> <span class="yom-figure yom-fig-right" style="width:310px;"><img src="http://l.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/2EeN7AUj5kRNvYCPw4z_vA--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7cT04NTt3PTMxMA--/http://media.zenfs.com/en_IN/News/MensXP/dating67996.jpg" alt="10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife" height="268" width="310" /></span></p> <p> A marriage is a union between two different people and it can be perfect only if both the people accept each other as they are.</p><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';font-size:large;" >25-6-2012<br />=====================================================================================<br />Sex Secrets*<br />There are many other things that women secretly like or dislike, but every<br />woman is different and so are her secret loves and hates. Another way to<br />find out these secrets is to play games. There are board games that<br />encourage some out of the ordinary interaction; this is great for learning<br />how to communicate better with your partner, and for finding out things you<br />would never have thought to ask. DonТt forget: The best sex is always had<br />by partners who can honestly discuss what they want.<br /><br />There are many things that men donТt know about womenТs wants in the<br />bedroom. ItТs not because men donТt care, itТs just because the subject<br />either hasnТt come up or sheТs too shy to offer you this information. While<br />every woman is different, there are some things all women can generally<br />agree on when it comes to sex.Because couples who communicate their needs<br />and desires have far better sex more often, you should encourage her to talk<br />about the things she wants. In the meantime, to get you started, weТre<br />giving you five feel-good secrets sheТs been hiding</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-34140618479994666692010-11-16T22:11:00.001+05:302011-01-18T21:54:27.603+05:30How to SEDUCE women????? 18+<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'; font-size: large; "><span><img src="http://www.loveiscomplicated.info/seduction-tips.jpg" border="0" alt="" /><br /><br />First things first; Seduction is not a set of techniques; seduction is a state of mind that produces techniques of seduction. You behave according to what you think. Always remember this thing: "YOUR STATE OF MIND CREATES THE STATE OF YOUR RESULTS".</span><br /><br /><span>Step by step approach:<br /><br />1. Correct Body language – art of nonverbal seduction<br />2. Approach her<br />3. Talk to her – cool essence is the key here<br />4. Make her your friend – be mysterious and predicatable (that is what women get attracted to)<br />5. Seduce her to the bed.</span><br /><br /><span>I am presuming that she is already your friend. And now all you want is to take her to your bed. Right?<br /><br />First and foremost thing, seduction is a strategical game where your ULTIMATE GOAL is to have sex with someone. Second thing, you have to master the skills of reading the body language of women. All your answers lie there.<br /><br />Now the question is how to succeed in this game of seduction?</span><br /><br /><span>1. Have Patience – Most of the men have the habit of rushing into everything, including sex. The trick to the game is to pretend that sex is the last thing on your mind (even though we all know it is the first thing).<br /><br />2. Exude confidence & power – Both men and women are drawn to those who exude power, as there is something about the attribute that makes a person attractive. Be MYSTERIOUS & UNPREDICTABLE in your approach. Tell for youself, who excites you more - Peter Parker or Spiderman?<br /><br />3. Be interested in what she has to say (fake it if you must) and above all make her laugh (with witty remarks rather than lame jokes and stupid behavior). This is utmost important.<br /><br />4. Eye contact. Make eye contact, but please look her in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don't stare – it's a turn off. While talking, move closer to her and you can even touch her shoulders, back, etc. But you should appear very casual and please, don’t overdo that. Judge every movement of her and try reading her body language. You will get your answers whether she is interested or not. Act accordingly. Follow your instincts.<br /><br />5. Learn to use your own voice to more effect. Speak slowly, surely and more deeply. All women love a very slow, deep speaking voice. Women find this to be very sexy and very attractive.<br /><br />6. Have fun. Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability. Always wear a smile. Develop a charming personality and you will become a people magnet.</span></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-46783825195679237952009-02-15T15:00:00.000+05:302009-02-15T15:02:32.823+05:30Friendship Globally01. <a href="http://www.friendjungle.com/action/signup.html?sourceid=4287">http://www.friendjungle.com/action/signup.html?sourceid=4287</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7873482112513804893.post-10342282395037464862008-12-15T15:57:00.003+05:302011-06-17T22:38:11.122+05:30Heighten a woman's sex drive<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:verdana, geneva, lucida, 'lucida grande', arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"> <br /><div id="post_message_4318359"><br /><div align="left"><span style="font-size:+0;"><span style="font-size:+0;"><span style="font-size:+0;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Men have traditionally been touted as the 'hungry for sex' species. With a comparatively higher sex drive than their female partner, men are often expected to assume charge while performing in bed and are held responsible for a gratifying act too.<br /><br />But why are men having all the fun? Women too can act bold when it comes to showing off their sex drive. But how?<br /><br />Dr. Deepak Arora, a sexologist elucidates, "Men love their wives to have sex and wives have sex to get love from their men, in this way they become a supplement for each other. So if the female partner starts taking an equal interest in the act of intimacy; it can bring them closer to each other and they can enjoy a healthy sexual relationship."<br /><br />Relationship and sex counselor Dr. Geetu Bhardwaj supports, "Gone are the days when a 'high sex drive' was considered a male prerogative. With various sexual techniques and arousal methods, even women can enhance their sex appeal and thus give their sex drive a much needed boost. Once women empower themselves to take charge in bed, they can overtake men not only in their sex drive, but also in sexual performance."<br /><br />Breaking away from the preset notion of 'men are sexually more active', we get experts to share ways as to how a woman can overtake her man in sex drive...<br /><br />Take charge of for*play : Men, in general, are not overtly interested in prolonged for*play. So it comes as an added advantage for women to give a push to their sex drive and initiate the primary for*play. Sex therapist Dr. Devesh Roy advices, "Women must keep in mind that the arousing acts should be intense so that the man feels that you are fully charged up for a steamy session in bed. Do not focus much on unnecessary things like cooking a meal etc that may mar the mood before it actually gets going."<br /><br />Plan for a sensuous night : You'd have often seen in Bollywood flicks that the hero is decorating the room for a night of passion and is going all out to woo his lady love with surprise gifts. But why do men make way for these sexual fantasies? It's time for women to let their wild imagination spread its magic. Relationship and sex counselor Dr. Geetu Bhardwaj opines, "Keeping their sexual desires on a high, women can plan for opulent bedroom settings whereby they can have everything that hints towards their sexual desire. Right from dim lights and aroma oils to fragrant rose petals and orchids strands; create an atmosphere that is conducive for a lovemaking night."<br /><br />Dress attractively : Quite often, women feel low on sex drive because they feel less sexy and attractive from inside. Hence, they wait for men to pamper them and make them feel wanted. Dr. Amita Mishra, a relationship expert however states, "Looking attractive in sexy attires like a bikini or see-through lingerie ignites the female sexual desire to get intimate with their partner and vice-versa. Even if your man is not interested in sex on a particular night, there are chances that your dressing provocatively will arouse them for a sexual session."<br /><br />Exchange naughty gestures : While men always boast of their sex drive through gestures like tickling, caressing, kissing, whispering and at times publicly displaying their affection, women too should try shedding their inhibitions and acting a bit naughty. While having dinner, women can try holding their mate's hands or giving them a surprise hug when he's shirtless right after a shower. "These sexual gestures act as clear indications that a woman is much more aroused as compared to the man. This high sex drive gets translated into a wonderful chemistry in the bedroom while having sex," feels Dr. Roy.<br /><br />Make kissing a memorable experience : Passionate kissing works wonders in your sexual paradise, but again don't let your man make the first move. Make him feel that you know much more than him when it comes to kissing. Try different kinds of kisses and drive him crazy. "Kissing is a quintessential part of for*play, the actual act and after-sex moments. Women can use kissing as a weapon to stimulate their partners and at the same time also experiment with newer ways of kissing to leave their partner utterly surprised," suggests Dr. Geetu.<br /><br />Don't insist too much on contraception : A short cut to let your man know that you're equally, or more, ravenous for sex is to let the things happen without much of interruption. While performing in bed, women must not insist too much on using protection and just try to enjoy the act. 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